Thursday, July 3, 2008

Lesson 2: Using "Truth Disconnects" to get women's attention

Hi guys,
I want to share it to you!
Mike was at a hot urban bar, and saw a
beautiful young woman in harem pants and a
bikini top. She had breasts that could only
be described as "alarmingly perfect" and
"almost completely exposed." One by one men
went up to her, and one by one she brushed
them off in a brusque, angry way.
Mike, a student of mine and a practicing Hard
to Get man, thought he'd take a try, too. . .
but that he'd use "bad boy" techniques.
While the other men he had watched approach
her had found lame reasons to walk near her
and then pretended to "notice" her, Mike
walked right up to her.
What would you say in that situation?
How would you approach the "perfect 10,"
who's been brushing off every man who
approached her?
If you don't know, you definitely want to
read this now.
Here's what Mike said.
He said, "Wow, you look really angry."
He didn't start with "hi," or (God forbid)
"You are really beautiful," or (extremely God
forbid) "Can I buy you a drink," or any of
the other lame things the other guys said.
He led with the truth. Which, in this case,
was: "Wow, you look really angry."
This threw her off. This was different. She
didn't like it, but at the same time, at
least Mike wasn't being a groveling wimp like
the other men.

USING THE POWER OF THE "TRUTH DISCONNECT"

Mike opened with what we call a "Truth
Disconnect."
And he did it to "cut through the clutter" of
the wimpy guys, and to get the woman's
attention focused on HIM.
You know from yesterday's lesson that, if you
want the women you desire to pursue YOU, then
you need to create DISCONNECTIONS.
You need to say and do things that create a
challenge or barrier that she has to "climb
over" in order to get to you.
That's what "bad boys" do... Rather than
spending all their time trying to REMOVE
barriers for the women to be close, "bad
boys" know that women (especially hot ones!)
are drawn to the men they think they can't
have...
And you show those woman that you are "hard
to get" by creating "disconnections" between
the two of you.
You must know this, or you will spend your
life groveling to women, rather than being
able to call the shots. (I'm sorry if that
sounds harsh, but that really IS the truth!)
In our "How to Be the 'Bad Boy' Women Love"
program, We teach 2 kinds of disconnections
which are very useful in different
situations: "Truth Disconnects" and "Canned
Disconnects."
Mike chose to use a "Truth Disconnect."
A "Truth Disconnect" is something you say to
a woman to create a "disconnection" that is
based on something that is
a) TRUE about her and
b) UNATTRACTIVE about her.
If she is being mean, you tell her she's
being mean. If she looks bored, or tired, or
upset, you tell her that.
The "Truth Disconnect" feeds back her
behavior to her, in a way practically compels
her to explain herself to you.
This is important because really "in-demand"
women will not give you the time of day if
you try to Connect with them.
Guys try it all day and all night, every day.
It simply is an approach that doesn't work.
But Disconnecting DOES get her attention.
It doesn't matter if you are "her type." It
doesn't matter if you are older than her, or
even not that good looking.
If you tell a woman (especially a hot one!)
something TRUE and UNATTRACTIVE about her,
she will usually be unable to leave you alone
until she has changed your mind.
And that was the kind of disconnect that Mike
decided to use on this woman.
So Mike went straight up to this woman who
had been really enjoying judging and
rejecting every man who came near her, and he
said,
"Wow, you look really angry."
Here's what she said back to him (Note how
mean she is-- it's the "bitch shield" in
action):
"I'm not angry. I'm just sick of guys like you
hitting on me."
WHAT WOULD YOU DO NEXT?
This is not an academic question. It's
important! If you don't know how to handle it
when a woman misbehaves, you are going to end
up alone, no matter what else you do!
Would you apologize? Grovel to her? Make a
joke and pretend she wasn't being mean?
In the next lesson I'll show you the EXACT
next steps that Mike takes, not only to
handle her bad behavior, but to get her to
start pursuing HIM.
Once you can use this next step, you'll never
think about women the same way again.
Until the next lesson!

Best,
jongskie

How To Pursue Women: Lesson 1: The 'Loophole' that makes women pursue you

Hello Guys

There is a "loophole" in hot women's behavior
that you can use to get them to pursue YOU...

And this blog will tell you about it.

We all know that superhot women seem to have
it all. They get approached by men all day
long, and can pick and choose from the men
who approach them for the richest or most
handsome man.

That would seem like bad news for "normal"
men. How will guys like you and I get those
superhotties if they are totally in control,
auditioning hundreds of men to find the
richest or most attractive one?

Well, luckily, there is a "loophole" in their
behavior...

And you can exploit that "loophole" to get
the women you desire to pursue YOU.

"Bad Boys" do it... and now, you can too.
and guys as I searching through internet I found this author:

Ron Louis and I will share to you what I read in his book.

Let's get started.

First, I have to break you of a myth that
most men believe.

The myth is this: If you "connect" with a
woman enough, on enough levels, and she'll
want to have sex with you.

That is wrong, wrong wrong!

If you are like most men, you've been sold
this Myth. You've been taught that if you
find enough things you have in common with a
woman, she will like you.

- You've been told that if you "connect" with
a woman by finding enough things that you and
she agree on, she'll desire you.

- You've been told if you "connect" with a
woman by making her always feel good (and
NEVER bad), she'll open up to you.

- And you've been told that if you "connect"
with a woman by smoothing over any conflicts
or differences, she'll want to have sex with
you.

It's not your fault that you've been taught
this...

But it's wrong, wrong, WRONG!

"Connecting" with women-- that is, finding
similarities, getting her to like you, and
making her feel good-- is the SLOW LANE to
success with women.

The simple fact is this:

No matter how good you are at "connecting"
with women, certain women-- those "in-demand"
women who are especially beautiful, or any
woman who wouldn't normally consider you--
will always be outside of your reach.

There's simply so much competition, and
you're so "not on her radar," that simply
trying to "connect" does not have any effect
on her.

The fact is...

You need to do something completely different
with these women.

If you want a woman you pursue YOU they way
she pursues a "bad boy," connecting is not
enough.

You must create "disconnections" that she has
to "climb over" in order to get to you.

Instead of being "easy to get" (like most men
are), you have to learn to be "hard to get."
We know this is true, because I've studied
"Bad Boys" for the last three years. And
creating "disconnections" is what the "Bad
Boys" do.

"Bad Boys" get women because they know how to
create "se_ductive road blocks" that women
must overcome to get to them.

And beautiful women, who are used to being
given everything they want, can't help but
pursue those men... no matter how
"unsuitable" they may seem.

That's the loophole... And this mini-course
will show you how to use it.

You see...

- When you "disconnect" with a woman, you
give her desires for you that are
unfulfilled... and therefore draw her in your
direction.

- When you "disconnect" with a woman, you
show her that there's difference between you
and her... and that motivates her to work for
your approval.

- When you are "disconnect" with a woman, you
directly show a her that you have a higher
"value" than she does... which intrigues her
and makes her want to associate herself with
you.

- When you are "disconnect" with a woman, you
become a "Hard to Get" man that women
pursue... rather than the other way around.

Doesn't that sound a lot better than what
you've been doing?

So that's the first lesson. Start to get into
your head that you MUST be able to create
DISCONNECTIONS with women, as well as
CONNECTIONS, if you want to succeed with
them, or even get them to pursue YOU.

When I tell this to most men, they have one
question: "How do I create the Disconnections
that intrigue women and make them want to
pursue me?"

Well, I've got good news for you. Over the
next few days I'm going to share the core
concepts of "How to be the 'Bad Boy' Women
Love."

My co-author David Copeland and I have spent
the LAST THREE YEARS studying "Bad Boys" that
women find irresistable, and we've made some
surprising discoveries.

If you want to find out all the details about
the "How to be the 'Bad Boy' Women Love"
program right now, go to...

http://clicks.aweber.com/y/ct/?l=Kpd._&m=pKbXRcbm1EgX&b=lPxGFogF6RTb4KiprUYETQ

And keep an eye on this blog of mine, Because over
the next few days you'll be getting the
insider secrets that "bad boys" don't want
you to know.

And you'll be able to start being the "Bad
Boy" women love.

Best,
jongskie